The recipe for orgasm with cunnilingus - Oral sex

Let's talk clearly: reaching orgasm with a cunnilingus is not a mathematical thing. Oral sex is not adding 2 + 2; sex, in general, is not an exact science, but an art at the service of a specific sensitivity that, in addition, is variable. I explained in article 5 ways to make the best cunnilingus and, since then, I have received many messages asking me if there was a more concrete way to make women reach the desired climax. My immediate answer was always no, but, after many conversations with friends and friends, I discovered that there is a pattern that is effective.

Did you know that there is a popular technique to take women to orgasm with oral sex?

Facts about cunnilingus

The truth is that the doubts, about whether or not there was a common way, arose when I reviewed the data of our permanent survey copper cunnilingus . Today, it reflects 38% of couples who declare that their women reach the climax once or twice when they provide cunnilingus; and a non-negligible 35% who say they almost always have an orgasm . That is, almost three quarters of couples say they melt.

However, there was something disturbing in the answers to the last question of the survey: the fact that a third of women only “ask for it from time to time” could be justifiable by some kind of shame; but what resists a coherent explanation is that 11% say that their partner “tickles”, and 32% that they “put too much pressure on their heads.”

I do not doubt that, in the heat of the moment, the ladies suffer the fusion with the female pubis, but (eye guys!) This may be because you are not exerting the corresponding pressure for that precise moment. Moreover, it may be that …

Preliminaries for oral sex

I will be very concise: softness, intensity and passion. These are the elements that have to happen in the prolegomena to cunnilingus. Of course, everything depends on the level of excitement of the woman. If she asks you not to go around, just don't give them away.

On the contrary, if you start from scratch, the caresses, gradually increasing the pressure on their erogenous zones, must precede the arrival of your tongue to the pubis. Gradually, much to much, let yourself be wrapped and synchronize with the alteration of your skin, and your sighs.

The oral sex recipe to reach orgasm

Same as the hairdresser

Before, after or without intercourse , the most important thing is the sensitivity of your clitoral region. Therefore, start as your hairdresser would: if you want to shave, before the razor will go to a higher number, to see if you really want it shorter. For that, slide the tongue gently between the lips, from top to bottom, and return in short zigzags to the clitoris .

The pelvis approaches your jaw … intensifies the circles and puts his mouth to his lips; the pelvis moves away … wide circles on its vulva, brushing, occasionally, the clitoris. In the latter case, use the fingertips to excite the area.

Cunnilingus in full excitement

With the face well attached to the pubis, move the tongue with pressure from top to bottom, alternating, from time to time, with a strong circular movement that covers the entire vulva. When you notice that she is lubricating enough, she passionately holds her hips and inserts her tongue into the vagina, to make a fleeting hummingbird kiss (I explained it in the article of the black kiss or anilingus ). This can be repeated, without losing sight of the fact that the purpose is to increase your desire to reach orgasm.

If you make these variations, it is very likely that in a short time she will reach the climax. But, if he resists, he insists with his tongue on the clitoris, while inserting the yolk of the index upwards, to massage its G- spot . While the tongue delights its nerve endings, it stimulates its interior by drawing circular shapes and / or bringing the finger from top to bottom.

I have explained this technique because you asked me. But I want to remind you that sex is not intended to reach orgasm (although this is the most pleasant), but to enjoy the body of your and your lovers.